Friday 21 December 2007

改变.接受

The Dry Leaf

与其抬头看着一片片凋落的叶子而感叹,低头看着满地金黄色的落叶而感伤,不如敞开心扉欣赏秋天的美景,才会看到身边其实还有许多美好的事物值得让你感动的。
生活中有许多事情并不能如我们所愿的发生,一开始时总是难以接收。如果能改变当然要尝试改变它,可是如果已成了事实,唯有敞开心扉接受它吧。只不过每个人能达到那个'接受'的阶段所耗上的时间都不一样,有人要花上好几天,有人要花上好几年,有人可能永远也接受不了。看开一点吧,别再为了改变不了的事实而苦恼,生活中还有许多其他更值得我们花时间的事和物。
改变所能改变的,接受不能改变的。

4 comments:

said...

这个我该明白了吧。。嘻嘻。。
就真的改变不了什么时,就改变心态吧!!

Anonymous said...

Sigh....why u take so long to accept one? I've already accepted the truth so long ago...wake up! U can do it! Gambate!

Su Xuan said...

aiyo,u know what I'm talking abt ma?haha...not only the thing u're thinking abt...just felt like wan2write something nia to polish my writing talent,hehe...anyway,for the thing u're talking abt(if I assume that I know the 'truth' that u're talking about ),I've accepted it almost 100% d =) U oso wake up lar,I noe sometimes ppl thought that they've accepted something as truth but deep in their heart it's not.

baby girl diary said...

sister, ssometimes in life we just sail with whatever that had been artanged by the environment or fate what we called. Maybe things will turn out pretty well, rather than when we make a decision ourselve, choosing sth that we think that is wat we want...